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I love you! – By
|The famous three
words we never hear enough of in our life. Throughout our life
span we keep looking, waiting and hoping for something to take
us, or lead us, to our true love. Have you ever wondered where
we can find love?
What really is this word “Love” that we keep repeating to that
someone special in our lives? How many times do you tell your
partner “I love you”? Do you really mean it, or do you just like
to hear yourself speak? Or, is it just being said because it is
part of the vocabulary that your partner likes to hear, or that
helps make them feel secure about themselves. So what’s love in
the first place? What does love mean to you? Where can we find
Before looking for answers, we need to establish things
ourselves and understand the meaning of the word “LOVE”.
Love, in my point of view, is a flow of energy between two
people that can bring awareness of their existence on this plane
together, and this helps their relationship, and the harmony
between them, to grow. If love is a flow of energy, basically it
is not costing you anything so why do we hold ourselves back
from truly sharing that love with someone else. Vulnerability,
security, or maybe fears prevent us, but how hard are we really
trying to achieve “true love”?
Love is already in your own backyard and we seem to have a hard
time accepting this. To be able to accept love we need to learn
how to give it in the first place. Love already exists in our
“being” as humans share the most precious, intimate and secret
jewel that is in our soul, our growth, and our spirit.
How much do you love yourself, or accept yourself for who you
are? I am not introducing this question in an egoistic or
selfish way. The amount of love you attract is really a
reflection of the amount you give to others. We mirror what is
already in us. You cannot get love from what you don’t have in
yourself in the first place. The amount of time and effort you
are willing to put into accepting, or inviting, true love to
yourself is the same amount you are already accepting or giving
to yourself? Are you ready to be in love? Ask yourself this
question. Let go of your pride and fears, and invest in
yourself. Think about it!
Do not allow one bad relationship to hold you back or stop you
from investing in love again. Holding yourself back from loving
someone is as equal to, or as important as, attracting love to
your own life. We always look to receive love from another
person but it is the contrary, you hold your happiness in your
own hands. So open your heart and a new love will come and
approach you. Don’t go too far to look for that true love. Just
start searching for it within yourself!!! Sometimes it is hard
to love ourselves because of different occurrences that have
happened to us. We lose our own self-confidence and self-esteem.
What I suggest, to renew your confidence in yourself, is a
change of attitude. Appreciate yourself first, for who you are.
Love yourself for who you are, and NOT for the way people want
you to be, in their image. You are who you are, and if someone
does not like you for what you are, then they are not the right
one for you.
Now again comes the question - do you really mean it when you
say to someone that you love him or her? Of course in my
opinion, you need to distinguish between real love and
infatuation. A person that showers his or her partner with
material things or gifts usually has two motives. First, he or
she is substituting one thing they can’t offer to their partner
(love) and second he or she is hiding something from their
partner (finding love somewhere else). Where am I going with
this, just to say that love has no value attached to it? Either
you give love from your soul or you don’t. Let’s just stop
kidding ourselves by living a fancy unreal life. Love has no
monetary value attached to it otherwise it would not be love.
Love is a flow of energy so how can we place a price on it.
Until you find true love in your own heart, embrace every moment
and enjoy your exploration of life and what it can bring to you.
Remember, love someone for who they are and not for the way you
want them to be. Appreciate them as human souls. Happy
Copyright © Joseph Ghabi
About the Author:
Joseph Ghabi is an author, lecturer, and healer. Joseph provides
Intuitive Numerology Consultation, Healing Childhood Experiences
Consultation and PhD Candidate living in Montreal Canada.
At the age of eight Joseph discovered his clairvoyance. Joseph
is natural medium. Joseph started the ‘Free Spirit Centre’
website at http://www.freespiritcentre.info. A community centre
devoted to personal growth, self help, soul growth, eating
disorders, relationships, healing and human issues. You can find
over 800 articles on the site.
Joseph task is in bringing Souls back to realization of their
own personal power and into alignment with their own soul
purpose and path of evolution.
|About the Author:
Joseph Ghabi is an author, lecturer, and healer. Joseph provides Intuitive
Numerology Consultation, Healing Childhood Experiences Consultation and PhD
Candidate living in Montreal Canada.
At the age of eight Joseph discovered his clairvoyance. Joseph is natural
medium. Joseph started the ‘Free Spirit Centre’ website at
http://www.freespiritcentre.info . A community centre devoted to personal
growth, self help, soul growth, eating disorders, relationships, healing and
human issues. You can find over 800 articles on the site.
Joseph task is in bringing Souls back to realization of their own personal power
and into alignment with their own soul purpose and path of evolution.