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Thai Girls vs.
Western Girls !
(‘farang’ in Thai language = foreigner/westerner) often fall
madly in love with the first Thai girl they meet – even if she’s
a rough street prostitute who doesn’t speak English.
Love-sick farang men are queuing up at the altar to tie the knot
with their dubious Thai mail-order brides but why don’t farang
girls stir their passions in the same way?
Thai girls and farang girls could hardly be more different. Put
simply, Thai girls are family-orientated and farang girls are
increasingly career-orientated. In America, 44% of women aged 15
to 44 have chosen to remain childless and the trend is gathering
pace. It’s easy to understand their point of view because, as
men, we’ve always pursued our ambitions.
Farang girls enjoy opportunities that their Thai sisters can
only dream about. In many ways, life in the West has never been
better but it doesn’t seem to have translated into greater human
We are witnessing an epidemic of relationship breakdown. Western
men and women seem increasingly ill-matched and unhappy.
Statistics reveal that dissatisfied western wives are divorcing
their husbands in ever-increasing numbers and they can’t seem to
find suitable replacements either.
Does this mean that we farang fellas are all useless?
No, of course it doesn’t and I’m going to explain why. Despite
the far-reaching changes in western society, the underlying
attitudes of men and women remain broadly the same.
Men still have a provider mentality and women still have an
entitlement mentality. Men have always been attracted by youth
and beauty and women have always been attracted by wealth and
Inevitably, the mismatch between our utopian aspirations and the
situation on the ground has created problems.
For the sake of his self-esteem, a man needs to be the
Taking on the domestic role makes him feel like a failure.
Women, on the other hand, feel uncomfortable in the role of
provider. A woman would quickly lose respect for any man who
appeared to be living off her.
Women still feel entitled to a partner more successful than
themselves. Consequently, the more successful a woman becomes,
the harder it is to find someone suitable.
On the face of it, men are more easily satisfied. All a man
needs is a girl who is cute and kind-hearted. Career status is
unimportant – it’s her personal qualities that count. He needs
to be her protector and hero.
A brash career-orientated woman will never excite a man’s
passion. If she’s pretty, he might humour her for long enough to
get into her pants but a long-term relationship is unlikely to
Women who don’t touch a guy’s heart but who have soaring
expectations are never going to find husbands. Men seeking
unconditional love and respect from aggressive ladettes are
never going to find wives.
As a result, more people than ever are living lonely single
lives between brief affairs. Throughout the western world, we
are seeing explosive growth in the number of single person
In the UK, for example, census data reveals that the number of
single person households grew by 14% between 1991 and 2001. An
unhappy world of selfish people living alone is now becoming
Returning to the original question, I think that many farang men
fall madly in love with a random Thai bar girl because they’ve
never met a truly feminine woman before.
Men feel a deep need to care for these needy fallen angels and
to receive affection in return. Even when the affection is
insincere, the compulsion is so great that few farang guys can
resist. Thai girls play the role perfectly.
They wield a power over men that their farang sisters have
forgotten how to use.
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